24 Feb

The Good – The Bad – The Ugly

Thoughts are like that…Good – Bad and Ugly.

Monitor your thoughts today and see which category they fall into.

How much of your past is affecting you life right now in a negative way? Think about that for just a moment……

What thoughts, feelings and emotions are you experiencing that are repetitions of the past?

What scenarios are you playing out in your mind that are projections into the future based on old, outdated memories and beliefs about how things will work out?

Are you really living your life right now or are you living in the past?

What proportion of past negative thinking gets in the way from having the love and relationship that you would like?

Once you start to monitor your thoughts and you realise that many of them are negative.  You will come to realise that there is no evidence that the past will happen again, after all the future has not begun.

Change your thoughts, change you life, change your ability to love and be loved.

My forthcoming book Find YOU Find LOVE will guide you to the heart of love and relationships the easy way.

17 Feb

The Journey Home to You

Do you want more love in your life?

Are you ready for a positive and loving relationship that fulfils you?

Would you to like be accepted for who you are and totally and free to be yourself?

Are you ready to make the rest of your life the best of your life?

If you have answered yes to at least one of these questions, then my forthcoming book Find YOU Find LOVE – Get to the heart of love and relationships using EFT may well transform your life.

Find YOU Find LOVE not only teaches you how to be the best that you can be it will act as your personal resource guide that will teach you a step by step process of how to get out of your own way so that you can experience the love that you truly deserve.

By examining the events, perceptions and beliefs you have formed about love and relationships you will gain the awareness that the past need not influence the future. This book will give you the freedom and encouragement to start your own journey of personal transformation and bring you back home to you. You will move from hopelessness to happiness and become the person who you’ve always have been and just forgot about.

After searching for more than 15 years outside of myself for the answers as to why I felt incomplete, unworthy and unlovable the contents of this book will lead you towards your own discoveries and insights to the realisation that you have everything inside of you that you will ever need. I will share with you my truth, my learning’s and the tools and techniques that will teach you to see through new eyes and to recognise that you already are a worthwhile, loveable and beautiful person deserving of love.

I will offer you the strategies for positive and lasting change guiding you back home to you, the place where love and happiness resides.

Who you are is amazing, and knowing that is the key to finding and keeping the love you want.

From my heart to yours with love x

09 Feb

What’s Love Got To Do With It?

I’m writing a book about love and relationships and I’m intrigued to learn as to how many of us may put love outside of ourselves as if it’s someone else’s duty to provide what we feel is missing.

In infancy the need for love is paramount to growth, in fact there are many studies that indicate when love is not available an infant’s brain will develop differently.  An example of this would be children in orphanages who with little love and care will die or be less prosperous.

Most of us in the western world are very fortunate to have grown up within our blood line families, surrounded by a host of adults and caregivers, there to cater to our every whim.  So what happens from birth to now that makes us feel unloved?

As an adult right now, how much of the responsibility to be loved do you hand over to others?  Is it someone else’s duty to fill you up with love?

Has there ever been a time when you felt unloved or rejected that may be influencing your need for love right now?

Do you feel unloved if you are single, widowed, divorced or in a relationship?

I’m researching right how experiences and perceptions that may lead to ‘lack of love’ or ‘feeling unlovable’ may be the contributing factors that run through an individual’s life right now.  Its interesting research and I will be sharing over the weeks and months ahead the learning’s, snippets and insights into ones ‘lovability’ meter and what the missing components are for those who feel love is missing from their lives.

How can you be more loving to yourself right now?

03 Feb

Why Your Relationships Aren’t Working and How to Change That

Stop for just a moment or two and think about all the relationships you’ve ever had and be aware of the different emotions that come up in you as you remember each relationship.

Where abouts do you feel that emotion in your body? What are those emotions, can you name them? Is there sadness, regret, guilt, anger or love, joy and happiness as you remember each experience? How have these relationships influenced you?

We have encountered so many relationships in our lives, which ones have been the most significant to you and why?

Our relationships might make us a son, daughter, mother, father, grandparent, aunt, uncle, cousin, niece, nephew, brother, sister, girlfriend, boyfriend, partner, husband, wife, lover, friend, colleague.  Include all these relationships in your inventory.

What is your relationship with yourself?  Just ponder that for a moment……..

All relationships begin with you, yes you!  Not many of us realise this. We often forget that most crucial aspect of relationships begins from how well relate to ourselves and the perceptions and beliefs we have formed about the relationships we have encountered in our lives.  Unless we can work out how we are relating to ourselves and others, nothing will change.

I will be writing to you over the next few weeks and months and sharing with you some snippets from my forthcoming book.

So if you’re relationships aren’t working and you want to change that, I will guide to a place where you will be able to understand yourself and others better so that you relate before it’s too late.

03 Feb

The Future Is In Your Hands

I’m just back from some amazing advanced practitioner training with Anne Jirsch Using Future Life Progression. Travelling through time, back to the past to childhood, a past life or our ancestral past gives us many insights into current problems and how we can resolve them so that our futures can be created the way we want.

We can cut ties to the past, change repeating behaviours and create new beliefs for ourselves something much more valid and empowering. Stepping into the future you (moving forwards in time) with all the insights and wisdom gained can steer the path you are heading on to something even greater than you may hope for.

So what is Future Life progression all about?

Just imagine how looking 5, 10 or more years into the future could benefit you…think about the valuable learning you could gain from the future looking back to now. What would you change with the wisdom gained from peeking ahead?

Future Life Progression is a unique and safe way to look ahead into your future for the purpose of finding out what next steps to take in your life now. It’s a positive experience that can only change your life for the better.

What would it be like to learn how to overcome the challenges you have right now? What if you knew that making a certain choice was the right choice? Is a certain job or relationship right for you? A certain house move the right move, is it the right time to make an investment? So many questions can be answered this way.

Future life progression will give you all of these answers and more. The future is yours to create for yourself and Future Life Progression will help you to achieve the best possible future you could ever imagine when you apply the knowledge and wisdom your future self gives you!

If you could give yourself advise 10 years ago after all the challenges you have overcome in the past 5-10 years what would you say? FLP is no different to that.

Rose’s Testimonial
I visited Wendy for a Future Life Progression. The session was relaxing and I felt quite energised afterwards. I am setting up a business so my focus was how this would progress over the next 5 and 10 years, I found the insight I gained from this session quite invaluable. I had many ideas regarding the direction my business would take and was becoming very confused over where I should be concentrating my energies, this session has helped me to streamline my thoughts and focus on one path. Looking back it is now quite obvious what I should have been doing but in my confusion I just couldn’t see it. I would recommend this to anyone who is looking for some direction in life.

MV’s Testimonial

”I have some experience with FLP with Wendy and it is definitely working for me. It keeps me focused on what I want for the future and I could let go of some (pessimistic) pre conceptions I had. Especially in these times when we are so busy with work, travel, social activities etc. FLP can give you guidance, makes things clearer and therefore can give you more peace of mind.”

There are several different ways of using Future life progression and the choice is yours:

If you have a specific problem that you wish to solve/find the way forward with we can work on that taking you to Future Life Progression 5 and 10 year point to find the answers.

It’s also possible to go to Alternate Futures so if you have a decision to make we can take you through several different options/choices by way of going through different ‘doors’ in your mind.

Alternative Lifetimes is another way of working-going beyond your life now into your future life to seek advice and wisdom if you wish to. I’m happy to work through as many options as you are comfortable with/guided to explore during your appoint time.

Sometimes clients do not have direct questions they just want a general overview of where they will be in 5-10 years time and what life will be like then- I ask open questions to the client based around general themes assisting them in finding out more about the life they will be living in the future and using their knowledge and wisdom from this point to advise them in their current lifetimes of any actions and changes that they might decide to make to allow the future of their dreams to be bought to them more quickly.

I’ve recently used FLP for the following questions posed by clients:

• What line of work/career should I be in
• Will I cope if I have children
• Will we get married
• Should I work on products or services
• What are the names of my products
• Will I meet anyone
• Should I take this business venture/opportunity
• Where will I be living
• Will my business be successful
• Will my financial situation improve
• Am I in the right relationship
• How can I improve my health
• What do I need to do to become happier
• What service provider should I use
• What book title shall I choose
• What is the best venue for me to work from
• Is this person trustworthy
• Will this employee fit in with the team

If you would like to experience FLP for yourself then please do make contact.  The best is yet to come!