Creating loving relationships comes from loving yourself first. Your outer world will mirror back to you your inner world. What you believe about yourself in positive or negative terms will attract itself towards you. When you are more tender and loving towards yourself, you will have reflected back to you boundless opportunities for love.
You have an opportunity right now to learn from the past and to work towards treating yourself differently, learning to respect, love and honour yourself completely. It’s time to start appreciating and acknowledging yourself for who and what you are. Any time you come away from your truth, your wholeness, your centre and lose sight of your greatness gently forgive yourself and go back to treating yourself with love, respect and care.
When you slip back into old behaviours of self criticism, self judgement and harshness think about what was it that made you act in an un-loving way towards yourself and be aware of any thoughts, words and actions that you expressed towards yourself that were hard hearted and insensitive.
When you learn to be more loving and considerate to yourself first and foremost , the inner mirror reflects to the outer world that you are happy, content and already filled with love and this is what will show up for you…even more love!
Think of all the ways you could be more loving towards yourself…..
When you are more loving towards yourself and accept yourself exactly as you are you have the capacity to transform, dissolve, neutralise and let go of unhelpful, outdated emotions.
When you choose to act from a place of self love it’s possible to expand, connect, amplify, magnetise and bring balance to your life. Your thought processes change and you may find yourself being more positive about life in general as well as being more positive about love.
When you are more loving towards yourself without needing to receive anything in return you give from a place of love and trust, a place of self acceptance and acknowledgement. You offer love without the need for external appreciation, validation, praise or acknowledgement because you already appreciate and value yourself. You offer love to others without condition and enjoy giving love without any attachment to what will be returned to you.
She believed she could and she did…
From my heart you yours with love x Wendy